Geez. Summer ended, school started. Enough said, the end.
Just kidding. Haha, like I’d end a blog about the first day of school after only a couple of words.
Ok so anyway this was a big year for us because Piper started school (Pre-K, but still). And we were SO afraid for her to begin. Nervous because her anxiety this Summer has been heightened and she wasn’t accepting all the changes we had been making very well….. Nervous because she’s as stubborn as can be and when something goes against her wishes, she digs those heels in. Nervous because what if she has to go potty and doesn’t know where the bathroom is? Nervous over making friends. Nervous over getting in trouble. Nervous over everything. As mom’s, all we do is worry about our kids. But my nerves were melted away at the end of the first day when her teacher said to me in all sincerity: “she was PERFECT. She is the sweetest thing and so precious. Just PRECIOUS.” Day 2 her teacher (Mrs. Cotton) told me she was “precious” and SO helpful. Day 3 she laughed and said “I don’t even see how you could be nervous because she is just SO well-behaved and PRECIOUS!” (Southerners love that word;) ). Man, it never gets old hearing that your kid is well-behaved. I am SO relieved. Yes, its only 3 hours a day. But still. 5 days a week is a lot for a 4 year old. We will see how she does as the newness and excitement wears off…. But her teacher is AWESOME. At “Meet the Teacher” I didn’t know how I felt about her. It was a little chaotic in the classroom so she was probably feeling a little frantic and she’s an older lady so clearly I mis-judged her…. I wasn’t sure if she was “the right fit” for Piper. But talking with her each morning at drop-off and each afternoon at pick-up totally eased my mind and I’ve actually come to REALLY like her. Like, a lot. And other than tears the night BEFORE school, I didn’t cry this year! The night before, during prayers and discussions with Shawn, I bawled my eyes out. But when we said good-bye to the girls I held it in! I’m proud of myself!
Now onto Lucy. With her ADHD we were nervous for a whole set of other reasons, but Meeting the Teacher was amongst my MOST nerve-wracking thing. I sent in a form last year with a request for a quiet, calm and nurturing teacher. As a kid, I didn’t like those types of teachers. I LOVED my peppy, fun, exciting teachers. But I know for Lucy, those types of things are distractions. She needed the most quiet of them all. And the school listened to me! Her teacher, Mrs. French, is extremely calm and quiet and low-key. She is everything I could have hoped for for Lucy. What a blessing! We can’t wait to see what the future holds! Not only that, but she has already emailed me 2 times! Last year, communication was such an issue with Lucy’s teacher. As in, she did not communicate with me at ALL. This year I have high-hopes for a much easier year! I heard from other people who had Mrs. French in the past that she has the most patience of any teacher in the school! Plus she’s been there for 10 years so she has lots of experience. I am looking forward to seeing Lucy excel and hoping there are less tears from both her and I. At least we have her medication dosage established! I don’t have to go back each and every month for more evaluations. We went before school started last week and now she isn’t due at the doctors office to go over more ADHD stuff for 4 more months! My wallet can take a little break as well ;)
Look at the comparisons from them vs. me in 1991 and 1993 :) Me and Piper's 1st day of Pre-K and Me and Lucy's first day of 1st grade! |
Look at how proud she looks! She was so excited to tell me all about her first day at school. This is pick-up at the end of her day. It was so sweet! We have a happy Pre-schooler! |
After school treats! Cheers to a successful 1st day of school for BOTH of them! |
So we are back at school and just chuggin’ right along. It was a successful week! It was only 3 days, but still a success!
Sully also had his 18month check-up and is 95% for weight, 77% for height, and 89% for his head. He’s a big boy! A busy boy. A Wreck-it Ralph, Energizer Bunny, Tasmanian Devil and Road Runner all in one. He is always on the go, always screaming, always terrorizing his sisters and Tasmanian-Deviling his way through every room he goes though. Always throwing massive fits when he doesn’t get his way, always studying his sister’s every moves and trying hard to mimic them, always doing the cutest things, always running everywhere he goes, always throwing food against the walls, always chucking everything in general, likes to pretend to be a puppy and a cat, laughs like Pee-Wee Herman, and is the love of my life. He LOVES having his teeth brushed (and loves to carry around a toothbrush all day), he loves to be tickled, loves to play, loves to dance, loves pushing little cars and tractors around all day, hates to have his diaper changed (still), loves to jump on the couch, loves to go swimming, and he loves food. He brings me food to open all. day. long. He’s the busiest child I’ve ever had- and that’s saying a LOT because all of my kids are busy. Sigh. My life is nuts!
Lastly, since Shawn was home this past week, we took advantage of the girls being in school and painted their room. I know, we’ve lived here for over a year but it seems like we just never had the time! So we let them choose all their colors. They chose Pink walls and yellow accents. I was on a budget for headboards so we came up with this and I think it turned out really cute! 2 "headboards" for under $30! One thing I love about Shawn- when we start a project, he doesn’t stop until it’s DONE. So painting their room and mounting the curtains was done in less than 24 hours. He did most of the painting. I just did the edges of the walls (we still had kids to watch and keep away from the wet paint!). Then while he mounted everything, I cleaned and rearranged the furniture back in place. We’re a good team! Painting a room is more work than I remember it being….then again, the last time I painted anything, I didn’t have 3 kids at my heels :)
Oh yeah. I know I said “lastly” above. But THIS is really the last thing.
Shawn got a promotion! I’m so proud of him! This has been a long time coming because he’s been in the same position for 3+ years and wanting to “move-up” in the company. His manager didn't want to let him go because he’s such an asset to the team and moving up meant moving departments within the company. So after a little tug-of-war between managers of departments, they finally made a decision and we came out the winner! We are so excited because not only will this be a little more money for us (which we are really in need of) but Shawn gets to stay home more!!!! Instead of 100% travel, it will now be 20-30% travel. DO YOU KNOW HOW HAPPY THIS MAKES ME???! The kids have suffered majorly, I have missed him as a husband just being there every week, and as a helper too. I have been impatient with the kids too often because everything depends on me, and lonely without him home. So this is many prayers being answered. I’m so happy and really, really proud of him. And now I have an adult to talk to throughout the week. It’s funny how much you CRAVE adult conversation when you don’t have it day after day. There were some months when the girls saw him for 36 hours in a 2 week span. He was always gone and it was just really hard. Anyway, his official start date is actually tomorrow and yes, he’s leaving for San Antonio for the week, but after that he will be home much more often and we can’t wait. Telling the kids was so exciting. All we had to say was “Daddy is gonna be home more often” and it was like fireworks exploding in their room. They screamed and shouted and jumped up and down on their beds. It was adorable. They ADORE their Daddy!!! They practically worship the ground he walks on.
So all in all, it has been a great week! (Oh yeah, we even made it to the Aquarium!)
I feel happy :)